My good friend Dr. Kambs said something very insightful the other day.
I must admit, it blew me right out of my socks and that doesn't happen very often.
He remarked that men are assholes because they expect their wives to work a full-time job, fix dinner, keep the kids happy and themselves looking sharp and then get pissed, when the lady is spent and tired and has no eagerness to spread her legs for the old fart.
Now, this alone was a very good observation. One that could have occurred to anyone of us, but didn't. But he wasn't finished at that point.
He added that men now usually might look for their pleasure somewhere else and more often than not, they find it with someone. Of course, everything looks bright, they still got their loving wife handling the household, the kids and everything else that would be a burden on them and plus they now got a slutty someone on the side without all the attachments. The bigger problem now, according to him, is that they may fall a foul this logical fallacy, namely that everything is bright and naughty and so not everyday with the new lady and that this may continue until eternity, when he leaves the old cow and gives himself over to his new "love". This, of course, can only end in shambles. But Dr. Kambs has a very pragmatic and easy solution for this as well. When the pressure builds up and you can't release it at home, go find some professional, don't go all Pretty Woman on her and don't screw up your life, just for some itch in your pants. Just get your fix and then go back home and enjoy the great life you've actually got.
You will probably ask how this pertains to your startup and the answer is quite tride.
There will also be some stale, boring times during the course of your venture. Times when you feel, you should just find something else.
The secret lies in powering through it. Or if you just absolutely have to find temporary satisfaction and instant gratification; go somewhere else, get your quick fix and your head back straight, but don't throw all that hard work away. Your fix may not lie with a professional street worker and that is a good thing. An evening bullshitting with friends might actually be more valuable to you or a relaxing surf, a family visit, some paintball or whatever gets you going and takes your mind of your troubles for a moment, may be just the thing you need.
There will also be some stale, boring times during the course of your venture. Times when you feel, you should just find something else.
The secret lies in powering through it. Or if you just absolutely have to find temporary satisfaction and instant gratification; go somewhere else, get your quick fix and your head back straight, but don't throw all that hard work away. Your fix may not lie with a professional street worker and that is a good thing. An evening bullshitting with friends might actually be more valuable to you or a relaxing surf, a family visit, some paintball or whatever gets you going and takes your mind of your troubles for a moment, may be just the thing you need.
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